Church Discipline is rarely if ever practiced in most Southern Baptist Churches. But it is not as if it has not been discussed. I found this article from 1999 that illustrates what has been discussed for years. Here is an excerpt of the article:
Addressing church discipline, (Don)Whitney pointed to statistics that two-thirds of Southern Baptist church members are absent from church every Sunday. He cited three reasons for such a problem: a methodology that is bringing large numbers of unconverted people into the church; the lack of biblical preaching; and the failure of churches to practice church discipline.
With many lost people as church members, churches often are not interested in calling a Bible-preaching pastor who supports church discipline, he said.
“The church that follows that pattern over a long enough period of time is on the path to apostasy,” Whitney said.
Speaking from Matthew 18:15-20, Whitney said churches should practice church discipline because it honors Christ by obeying Scripture. Also, he said church discipline maintains the purity of Christ’s church, restores fallen brothers and sisters to righteousness, returns believers to spiritual freedom and reconciles broken fellowship between believers.
“One of the misunderstandings is that [church discipline] is punitive, but the goal is restorative,” Whitney said. “The goal is to win someone back, not kick someone out.”
Church discipline, when done correctly, should follow a precise process, Whitney said. A Christian should first reprove a fallen brother or sister in private, then take one or two more people along for a second visit, if necessary. If the person still refuses to repent, only then should the church deal with the problem and consider withdrawing fellowship from the person.
Withdrawing fellowship “requires a persistent refusal to listen to the church and repent,” Whitney said. “It’s not a one-time mistake where someone messes up and they’re out of here.”
Church discipline is never an easy process — Whitney called it “gut-churning” — but Christians should take comfort in the fact that God has promised to be with the church through the process. Southern Baptists need pastors who are bold enough to stand on the teachings of Scripture, even when it’s not popular to do so, Whitney said.
And how do churches know when discipline has been successful?
“It’s when you obey Christ,” Whitney said. “Our job is not to bring about the repentance. Our job is to obey Christ, and he is the one who will effect repentanc
And as of most recently Dr. Daniel Akin, in his now famous and hopefully historic address at Southeastern Seminary said the following when he gave his speech on A Great Commission Resurgence back in April of this year:
Each of these distinctives must be embraced under the lordship of Christ as revealed in Christian Scripture and interpreted by gospel-centered congregations. We must be willing to alter our practices to better accord with a robust Baptist identity, including in many churches a more responsible baptismal policy, a recovery of redemptive church discipline, a healthier balance between pastoral leadership and congregational authority, and a commitment to an every-member ministry.
Sounds good right? Biblical and logical even. So why don’t we practice it? Are we ignorant, afraid, too busy with other things, or just lazy. I think all are true to some degree. But I think one of our biggest problems is not what we see about this issue but what we don’t see. We don’t see church discipline as being a loving act.
Number 7 of the Nine marks of a Healthy Church has this to say about church disciple being an act of love:
We know intuitively as parents that love is not always lenient – love doesn’t always let. If I let my daughter touch a hot stove repeatedly without disciplining her, I am not loving her enough to keep her from burning herself. My discipline, or lack thereof, reflects on the quality and extent of my love for her. In the same way, if God lets us continue to commit the same sin with impunity, He is not loving us enough to teach us the importance of avoiding the burn of sin. It follows that if a church member sees his brother sinning continually and says or does nothing, that lack of discipline reflects poorly on the quality and extent of the member’s love for his brother.
Hebrews 12:5-11 says:
5My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, Nor faint when you are reproved by Him; 6for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives. 7It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 8But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. 9Furthermore, we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live? 10For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. 11All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
How is it that so many churches and church members have lost their way in this area? We are so afraid or apathetic to confront others for their own good. And we wonder why “Christianity” has lost it’s appeal to so many in the world. I think part of it is due to the fact that there are so many unrepentant Christians in the church. The result of not disciplining church members over the years has been a lowering of standards in the church. We are afraid we will run people off from the church, yet those in the church lives are falling apart. Marriages are splitting, gossip runs rampant, Men don’t lead in their homes and our children are being held captive and captivated by the world. As we discussed this in my Sunday School class a couple of weeks back an young lady wisely said we are just too selfish. Too selfish to lovingly confront someone to turn them back to their one true joy; the only thing that can satisfy them…Christ.
I know that we have all heard the horror stories of people who go on witch hunts and think they are the Church police, dragging people up front for the purpose of just getting rid of them. But we can’t allow the fear of abuse keep us from being obedient to what scripture tells us to do. It begins with each of us as members of the body getting involved in community. Placing ourselves under the authority of the church. Making ourselves accountable to each other. If each of us were to be involved in each others lives in this way we would rarely ever have to bring a matter before the church. And when matters are brought to the attention of church leaders, we must have the courage and love to discipline.
To listen to a conversation on this topic with Matt Schmucker, executive director of IX Marks and an elder at Capital Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC, click here.
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